Trophies Do Not Always Go To The Best One, Just The Winner. |
I have known people who got busy with doing other things in their life, sidetracked enough that they did not have time to prepare their soil for planting a spring garden. They procrastinated too long to get their seeds in the ground and failed to complete the irrigation plans to make sure enough water helped the seeds grow well. Yet in the end, I have seen their garden look the best of anyone else who followed all of the right rules. Sometimes success is subjective.
I am sure you can think of other situations similar to those two. When someone you know does not follow the right steps to secure success and wins despite doing all of the wrong things. The ball just seemed to bounce their way. Sometimes success is subject, it seems biased and unfair. Some winners win despite the obvious fact that they do not deserve to win. It happens. How many times has someone said they were very lucky to get out of this one with a win? How many times has a bunch of bad sportsmanship players on a particular team come back to win a game they should have lost and because they did not deserve the win, you felt awful when they won? Their victory left a big hole in the pit of your stomach. You know down deep that they did not deserve to win, but they did. Sometimes success is subjective.
Business can be exactly like that. A competitor who has a nasty way of competing can constantly draw the most success and it can begin to irritate you. Somehow that nasty competitor steals your business in an unfair way. It begins to get your goat. I have had it happen. I caught a competitor one time placing live mice around the perimeter of one of my business buildings. We had just purchased a vacant building across the street from our place of business and were inside one night walking around making some plans. We were done and shut off the lights. The moon and street lights were all we had left to illuminate our way as we finished talking about a few more things we planned to do with this old building we just purchased. We were standing inside the old building in the dark, chatting about more plans. Then suddenly we both spotted someone walking around the side of our business in the parking lot across the street. We waited to see what that person was planning to do. It looked suspicious.
We had a furniture store operation in that building. The person outside our building had a couple of boxes in their hands. They seemed to be bending over every once in awhile, tipping one of the boxes to the ground as if to be releasing or dumping something out. I told my girlfriend, who later became my wife, that I would be right back. I told her to stay in the vacant building. I was going over to see what that person was doing. As I approached the person, I could see they were dumping something along the side of the parking lot wall next to our furniture store building. The person did not see me. The closer I got the more I recognized the person. I was shocked. It was the owner of a furniture store competitor who had a business a couple of blocks away. He was releasing a bunch of mice next to our building. I could not believe my eyes.
Boy was he shocked when I called his name and asked him what he was doing. I waved to my girlfriend across the street to come and see what this fool was up to. It was an amazing experience. The look on my girlfriends face, her body language told the whole story. We were shocked and amazed. It was an experience that gets marked down in the book of memories.
We have been through a lot of competitors in this marketplace. Many have come and gone. This one particular owner still stands strong as a serious competitor and still holds a fair share in the marketplace. Sometimes success is subjective. Sometimes owners can do many of the wrong things that do not meet the correct list of right things to do and win anyway. Placing live mice in a competitors building is not one of those right things to do on the list of winning fundamentals to practice. Victory still appeared. It does not seem right. That event happened almost thirty years ago. Both of us still compete against each other to this day.