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| Sometimes It Seems Like I'm The Boss, All Bullshit. |
Seven local business owners were selected to provide this advisory service to the new owners. We were given some loose guidelines and a routine schedule to meet with the new owners to handle their questions. The director of the Small Business Administration local chapter would moderate the scheduled routine sessions. The setting was not private nor friendly in design. It had the appearance of being much like going to a kangaroo court about troubling issues the new owners were discovering. The project failed. It did not attract very many new business owners to serve, even though at that period of time there were a lot of new business start-ups. I could tell that many of the new business owners were intimidated by the set-up of the scheduled sessions. I remember one day getting an opportunity to have a private and brief conversation with the Small Business Administration director of that project and asking him if he had ever owned a small business before? His answer was, "No." My suspicions were spot on. It was obvious.
I noticed a couple of interesting patterns in that short experience. As I met with several of the new business owners, I focused on why they wanted to go into business for themselves. I wanted to see what the motivating factors were for them to take this kind of risk. I made a short sheet of questions I prepared and asked them those initial questions. One of those questions was for them to give five reasons why they wanted to open up their own business. I listened to their reasons for going into business for themselves. I still remember most of their answers to this day. The number one reason they offered was how they wanted to be their own boss. I think all of them used that answer. Another popular reason given was that they wanted to make more money. Another popular one was how they wanted to be able to take more time off from work. And yet another one that was high on the reason list was for them to be able to control what they wanted to do everyday at work. Those were the top reasons why many of the new business owners were taking this risk.
I have been in the business world for almost forty years. I associate with hundreds of business owners. I have five family members who operate their own business models; a mother, a brother, a wife, a daughter and a sister-in-law. They all own their own models of business, not shared with each other. Not one of them was able to manage reaching any one of those top reasons for owning their own business, except for having more potential to accumulate wealth. None of the business owners I know have a lot of 'free-time' to take off whenever they feel like it. In fact, if you count the lawyers they retain, the accountants they hire, the bankers they use, the suppliers they find and the customers they serve...none of them are their own boss. None of the successful ones, anyway. Everyone of those small business owners is tugged and pulled by all of the rules, requirements, suggestions, obligations, arrangements and services they need to respect in order to operate profitably. They are not their own boss. They are governed heavily. In fact, none of the business owners I know are in control until they respect the controls placed upon them for what they do for a living. They have no control until they submit to the controls placed upon them. It is no wonder why most of the new 'start-up' business owners in that Small Business Administration program bailed out before their businesses got started. They quickly discovered that they had to kill most of the reasons why they were motivated to go into business for themselves in the first place. What a rotten discovery to find.
Business owners are a lot like being placed into a jail to do what they do. They have some very telling things that need to be done whether they want to do them or not. If they fail to do those things that are required of them to perform, they will soon find they will need to do them or get out. If they want to continue to operate their business model, they will need to comply or lose it all. It is not a forgiving process. Instead, it is a very demanding process. Most of what a small business owner does to succeed comes from the fact that they do a lot of things they do not want to do. If they were an employee, they would have a better chance to ignore doing some of the things they need to do and still remain compensated and employed. I know, I have been on both sides of that fence. Employees have more freedom to do what they want to do than a business owner. Employees get to go home when the day is done and do some of the things that interest them during their private time. Business owners often need to stay at work longer doing what they need to do when the others have gone home to play. After a while, business owners give this extra effort of time spent with absolutely no thought at all. It becomes part of their habit to responsibility. Most owners do not notice it, but owning a business is much like being in jail.





